This post was originally August 23, 2017 after the murder of 32-year-old Heather Heyer. In light of Macklemore being dropped from Ed Sheeran's Loop...
We’re trying our best, which is more than enough.
My Darling Beaux
The night Bunzy died my heart shattered. I'd never known heartbreak like that; I still don't. Cleaning up his area, I didn't know if I were going to...
Oh My Lady Cat
Picture it: June 6, 2025. You're working from home and you hear a high squeal. Thinking it's a bird, you take a peak outside but don't really think...
Nothing Breaks Like a Heart
"This world can't hurt you;It cuts you deep and leaves a scar;Things fall apart,But nothing breaks like a heart."Mark Ronson ft. Miley Cyrus Waking...
Dedicated to the Legend: Bunny Anthajets
Saying goodbye to your best friend is hard. On August 21, 2024, I said an unexpected goodbye to my first pet. He wasn’t just a pet, though; he was...
Dance is…Wonderful?
This is an update to a post about my complicated relationship with dance that you can read here. I love expression with movement, but I hate the...
Dance is Wonderful and Awful
This was first posted on my Substack, "The Slow Down, a Place for Friends," on October 8, 2023. Since then, I decided to stop using Substack and...
Breakups Suck: How Ariana Madix Helped Me Believe I’ll Be OK
No, I don't know Ariana. But if I've learned anything from watching her flourish post-breakup is...
Fatphobia (Taylor’s Version)
Standing on the scale in the bathroom, the young woman hopes and prays for a lower number, but once it stops it’s not to her liking. She sighs in...